Your family may use one of many names for your house spirit. It may be called a husvaettr, a tomte, a nisse, a brownie, or a housewight (or many other things!) This is the spirit that protects your house and family. Think of it as a minor god or goddess that is specific to your home. The house spirit will help your house to stay in good repair, and help with family cohesiveness and protection.
If you forget to clean up after yourself the house spirit may play tricks. They may move objects to get your attention and remind you to clean up your mess! If you have lost an item, whether or not the house spirit hid it or not, you can ask for the aid of the house spirit in finding it. You can gift an offering of cream, milk, coffee, porridge, honey and ask for their help getting the item back.
Some families also believe if you accidentally drop a food item then it now belongs to the house spirit and should be given to them.
It is common to leave out a gift of porridge with a pat of butter on top for the house spirit the night before Yule to thank the spirit for protecting your home.
You can also make regular offerings to your house spirit to help build a better relationship with it.
Here is a simple rite you can follow.
You will need:
- a cup of milk or a small amount of honey in a dish
- a space to leave offerings (sometimes this is a shelf, or a spot in the kitchen or above the hearth or near the furnace. discuss it with your family what will be best.)
What you do:
Place your offering on the place your family has agreed upon while saying, "Spirit of this home please accept this gift. Thank you for watching over this home and me and my family."